WIVES YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO COMPLAIN OF LACK OF SEX IF YOU ARE FILTHY
Ladies, let us clear one thing, tissue paper is not sanitary pad but let's play along for a minute as say it is a substitute, how are you disposing it? We need not stress that if the disposal of tissue paper is poor then that of actual sanitary pad will be worse.
In too many cases, the wives complain first about husbands who are no longer enthusiastic about their bodies and sex but further digging brings up the missing pieces.
How can someone with smelly and discoloured pubic hair (from dirt and sweat) expect sexual activities?
Personal hygiene is primarily not a team work but the consequences of it will affect any team.
You cannot expect a person to head into a 'jungle' in clear disgust, a consequence of your lack of attention to care coupled with stubbornness. This is similar to armpits and even the hair on the head which you see many scratching, tapping or hitting.
The first step is to have regular baths, make this a habit even if you have to go out to fetch water.
Deforestation is paramount and this applies to the northern and southern vegetations.
Body odour; This can be cleared temporarily with your bath but as you will not have that every second, it becomes very important to have something to make your smell pleasant.
Pluck beards and chest hairs. Yes, it is not your fault but for how long will it continue to be an issue? It is what it is.
Shave your legs if you are very hairy, except that's what's preferred by your partner.
Manicure and pedicure is quick to be mentioned by many when they haven't had any in years. Going about with half snapped toe nails with part peeled paint claiming to be making fashion endeavors, the heels of many cracked in neglect.
You have no right to complain about poor sex if you are not on the highest level of hygiene required for it.
Why can't he just tell me then?
What happened the last time he told you anything? To be honest, it is easier to avoid it with some women but yes, husbands need to be braver and speak up about this with very gentle and constructive approaches.
Can't he do it indirectly like buying and suggesting products? Yes, many have tried and that is where stubbornness is manifested. Still, you have to try as a husband.
The filth that many keep at home is shocking. Plates piled up in dirt for days, dirty underwear soaked in laziness for weeks, house uncleaned in months.
Hygiene is a big deal and will affect many things. It's worse if your spouse cannot even speak with you without you getting defensive or turning it into a fight. In the end, it's the marriage and home that suffers.
Pay attention.
